To be engaged, living on a small island, and building a floral business—these were Emma Engstrom’s wishes, solidified in a letter she wrote to her future self nearly a decade ago. Check, check, check!
Now, with three successful summers of her business, Keep Floral, under her belt and her young son, Ellis, in tow, Emma is figuring out the balance of building her business and being fully present as a mother.
As she reminisces about when she and her husband Marcus first bought the ten-acre farm, she lets out a soft laugh. “I think we were a little bit naive because it was COVID, thinking, This is going to be such a great journey! not yet knowing how arduous and labour-intensive farming is.”
But they soon got the hang of it. By the time the post-pandemic wedding boom hit, Emma was very pregnant and designing arrangements for 35 weddings across the region. Navigating midsummer ferries from island to island, she had to don a parka while the air conditioning blasted throughout the car so as to preserve the delicate arrangements. “It was pretty full on!” Emma exclaims.
“That season solidified and validated the farm for me, knowing I can make a business out of this,” she says.
To live on a small island, find a life partner she could build a family and start a life with, and build a floral business—these were Emma Engstrom’s wishes, solidified in a letter she wrote to her future self nearly a decade ago. Check, check, check!
Now, with three successful summers of her business, Keep Floral, under her belt and her young son, Ellis, in tow, Emma is figuring out the balance of building her business and being fully present as a mother.
She reminisces about when she and her husband Marcus first bought the ten-acre farm. Because it was COVID at the time, it allowed them the time and space to research and plan the flower farm intentionally. They took an intensive flower farming course beforehand, but Emma, letting out a soft laugh, still acknowledges, “I think we were a little bit naive, thinking, This is going to be such a great journey! not yet knowing how arduous and labour-intensive farming is.”
But they soon got the hang of it! By the time the post-pandemic wedding boom hit, Emma was very pregnant and designing arrangements for 35 weddings across the region. Navigating midsummer ferries from island to island, she had to don a parka while the air conditioning blasted throughout the car so as to preserve the delicate arrangements. “It was pretty full on!” Emma exclaims.
“That season solidified and validated the farm for me, knowing I can make a business out of this,” she says. “Even though we were travelling a lot, it was worth it to be able to show people that beautiful flowers can be grown in your backyard, here in BC, and still be of the same calibre as store-bought arrangements.”
Now, with Ellis strapped to her back out in the field and in the studio, Emma’s perspective on life has changed. When I ask what she would write in a letter to her future self now, Emma ponders for a moment.
She admits that due to a lull in weddings this year and having had to turn down many of them in 2024 because of Ellis’s arrival, she is practicing letting go of the hustle. “I really want to enjoy these little moments with my son. Because this business ebbs and flows, and there are going to be peaks and valleys.”
With a number of exciting inquiries for 2026, Emma says she wants to focus on quality over quantity, designing unique, thoughtful weddings. “I think the one thing that I’m really trying to learn now and teach—and hopefully future Emma will be doing this in five years—is just being slower, being proactive, being more present, and enjoying the quieter times, while knowing that money will come and go. This time with my son and as a young 35-year-old, physically able person is here, now.”
📖 This article is a follow up to "21 Dreamers and the Businesses They’d Love to Start" that appeared in The Restless Dreamers Volume of FOLKLIFE Magazine.
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